i dressed goth into my college once, since then my friends call me school shooter, is hard being a zoomer.
yeah see absolutely no offense meant but this post is why I think I'm too old for Agora- you don't
dress goth, it's not a fashion. it's a lifestyle revolving primarily around the music. no one would think I'm a goth by looking at me 90% of the time- I work from home and I wear comfy shit and earth tones. It's my MIND that's wearing the black leather, you see.
The thing about Goths, is a lot of people don't take them seriously. I also use goth and emo interchangeably(is this incorrect?) and I know a bloke who's a goth but he's an excellent friend. Dunno what all the hate and people taking the piss out of them is about.
I don't browse /mu/ on 4chan but I'd be surprised if there wasn't a goth/emo general thread, and I'd also be surprised if there's no other communities you can ask about in that thread.
Also your best bet for finding Goths irl, is probably just to go to a live session and make friends with the people who go there.
it is incorrect to use the two interchangeably because they are separate subcultures pertaining to specific types of music. you can be both emo AND goth but not everyone is. you'd get some 90's goth in his spandex bat panties in a major twist if you called him an emo.
It's very unfashionable to be an edgelord right now, and that's likely why goths have been turned into a meme lately.
I think I'd rather cut out my own eyes and eat them than try to make a friend on 4chan, or have any semblance of meaningful encounters on there. as a woman I'm not looking to befriend an incel any time soon lul. And yes, I could I guess make a friend IRL but then I'd have to leave my cave and I like it here. There's a vampire club in my city but I'm too pussy to visit a bar as a non-drinker.
I spend a lot of time surfing old personal sites and webrings, and I miss that unapologetic f-you subcultures that used to be around in the alternative scene. Alternative shit has been completely usurped by idiots in clown makeup and striped shirts, listening to Billie Eilish like it's edgy.
dude this meme is revolting- I'm so sick of pornbrained Vtubers and onlyfans shit catering to this and making it a fetish. no dude who begs for a goth gf would be able to handle one. most legit goth women (not the ones cosplaying as them), myself included, are raging feminists and pagan weirdos. The big titty goth gf thing is just a fetish for women in alt bondage gear and black lipstick
real goth women want Pete Steele, and I suspect Twitter coomers are not gonna deliver (I knew a goth girl who paid $$$$ for a copy of the playgirl mag he was in)
listen to some
Paralyzed Age and
Type 0 Negative and let the vibes wash over you