Let me ask you this, then: has there ever been, or could there ever be, a technological innovation that has a net negative impact on society?
Just because boomers were 95% wrong about the effect of video games doesn't mean that every criticism of [today's new thing] should be brushed off without consideration. Video games didn't turn children into mindless killing machines the way we were told they would in the 90's, but it's pretty hard to make the case that the huge segment of society that logs 40+ hours per week into gaming is a good thing.
Addendum: I guess the simplest way to put it is to say that the mere existence of moral panic does not negate legitimate criticisms of new things.
I would agree whole heartedly with what you've said here. My statement certainly was very generalized, but I do recognize the nuance that entails anything. In general, I would say there is nothing that is purely a net-positive nor net-negative, yet a system of pros and cons that we must evaluate.
That being said, it took 50+ years to do studies that could give us a better insight into whether video games truly were a net-negative in the way that many older people viewed them to be. And while the concept of video games can be a net-positive when used appropriately, there still are some legitimate negatives to address in that space.
This is all to say that I think it is far to early to claim something like TikTok is a net-negative or, if it is, will stay that way. Its, comparatively, in its infancy, and for people like millenials to so unabashedly claim that TikTok is "ruining a generation" per say, is to both blindly ignore their own experience and repeat the mistakes of their parents.
As a millenial who grew up on the tail end, I was always privy to other millenials complaints about how boomers were just too old to get it, too scared of the new, set in their ways. So, I am highly disappointed that the millenial mindset seems to be taking the same route that they once admonished.
Anyways, that is why I seem to vehemently mock such ideas with very generalized statements. Its easier than writing this everytime and I think its the sort of push back it deserves.