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Originally wanted to post this as a Status but it had way too much characters and was over the limit.
So I decided (after checking the catalog) to start an anime discussion thread. Meta Talk, Opinions, Discussions.
I'll start:
As much as I like Anime theres a few things I simply hate:
● The way romance, love and lust is treated
During the obligatory hotspring scene/ episode women and men are in secluded areas, men sneak over trying to glance at the women and get hit with the "zamn " red face and fall over.
Or, MC sees a female character undress and quickly looks away and makes it super awkward in both expression and dialogue. "OMG SHES NAKED AND HAS BOOBS AND A FAT LABIA" or something along that lines but more like "omg her naked body, I'm not allowed to glance at her, does she even know I can see her? Did she spotted me? Omg what should I do" etc etc
And dont get me started on romance scenes.
Is this some cucked japanese culture stuff? Or why can't they handle this in a mature way?
This group spend weeks to months together, slept together in tents, share intimate details from their life, build up mutual trust yet seeing them naked or half naked is causing such a disturbance? If anything they should be accustomed to seeing each other naked or skins. Given that armor and clothing breaks in combat or simply wears down they should be used to seeing bits missing, clothes being teared and exposing skin, party member changing clothes or taking off armor on breaks.
I have seen female friends of mine naked/ partially clothed plenty of times within our friendgroup. And we were (unfortunately) not exploring dungeons or defeating a demon army. Without any romance or sex involved too.
What my point is: This stuff just happens when you spend a lot of time and experiences together and IS NATURAL.
We even pissed together in the same bush after a nights out or saw each other puking, buying female sanitary products or condoms, talked about our relationships etc. Maybe we were more open than others but it stands that stuff like this just happens in a friend group and is not treated as immaturely as in many Anime. Someone throws a house party in summer, everyone more or less stays to sleep with 7 other men/women in the same room, I remember sharing a couch with 4 other people lmao. Barely clothed because it either got dirt/ juice on or because we didn't wear much to begin with. Again, without any sexual intention or whatever.
And yes, Hentai. We literally only have polar opposite. Suddenly in Hentai theres no holds back and they show the most unhinged stuff possible.
I wished they took more western elements when it comes to this topic. If you take any series that is comparable to the anime format (main character focus and progression, story arc that spins over several episodes/seasons, protagonists can die/ change appearance/ age) they at least make it non awkward or if some characters decide to have sex or get closer they use that vague cut technique that fades to black once they are in bed.
I take this a thousand times over the super cringy shit that happened in Konosuba or Danmachi. What I've seen there makes me question some of the writers mental state and honesty I can see why Japan has such declining birthrates. When they cant even portray social dynamics in a fantasy series. Also it does ruin the immersion for me and whenever this happens It makes me question my choice in watching series/movies. Is this show made for kids? e.g
But then they show creatures getting dismembered or protagonists loosing limbs so its quite a stark and unconvincing contrast....
So I decided (after checking the catalog) to start an anime discussion thread. Meta Talk, Opinions, Discussions.
I'll start:
As much as I like Anime theres a few things I simply hate:
● The way romance, love and lust is treated
During the obligatory hotspring scene/ episode women and men are in secluded areas, men sneak over trying to glance at the women and get hit with the "zamn " red face and fall over.
Or, MC sees a female character undress and quickly looks away and makes it super awkward in both expression and dialogue. "OMG SHES NAKED AND HAS BOOBS AND A FAT LABIA" or something along that lines but more like "omg her naked body, I'm not allowed to glance at her, does she even know I can see her? Did she spotted me? Omg what should I do" etc etc
And dont get me started on romance scenes.
Is this some cucked japanese culture stuff? Or why can't they handle this in a mature way?
This group spend weeks to months together, slept together in tents, share intimate details from their life, build up mutual trust yet seeing them naked or half naked is causing such a disturbance? If anything they should be accustomed to seeing each other naked or skins. Given that armor and clothing breaks in combat or simply wears down they should be used to seeing bits missing, clothes being teared and exposing skin, party member changing clothes or taking off armor on breaks.
I have seen female friends of mine naked/ partially clothed plenty of times within our friendgroup. And we were (unfortunately) not exploring dungeons or defeating a demon army. Without any romance or sex involved too.
What my point is: This stuff just happens when you spend a lot of time and experiences together and IS NATURAL.
We even pissed together in the same bush after a nights out or saw each other puking, buying female sanitary products or condoms, talked about our relationships etc. Maybe we were more open than others but it stands that stuff like this just happens in a friend group and is not treated as immaturely as in many Anime. Someone throws a house party in summer, everyone more or less stays to sleep with 7 other men/women in the same room, I remember sharing a couch with 4 other people lmao. Barely clothed because it either got dirt/ juice on or because we didn't wear much to begin with. Again, without any sexual intention or whatever.
And yes, Hentai. We literally only have polar opposite. Suddenly in Hentai theres no holds back and they show the most unhinged stuff possible.
I wished they took more western elements when it comes to this topic. If you take any series that is comparable to the anime format (main character focus and progression, story arc that spins over several episodes/seasons, protagonists can die/ change appearance/ age) they at least make it non awkward or if some characters decide to have sex or get closer they use that vague cut technique that fades to black once they are in bed.
I take this a thousand times over the super cringy shit that happened in Konosuba or Danmachi. What I've seen there makes me question some of the writers mental state and honesty I can see why Japan has such declining birthrates. When they cant even portray social dynamics in a fantasy series. Also it does ruin the immersion for me and whenever this happens It makes me question my choice in watching series/movies. Is this show made for kids? e.g
But then they show creatures getting dismembered or protagonists loosing limbs so its quite a stark and unconvincing contrast....