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I'm thinking about the latest crop of internet/media addicts, so mostly the under-21.
I noticed that for many of them, you're never just a fan of something, no, you're member of the fandom. The social aspect seems even more important than the subject matter, which itself becomes mostly a social signal. You get into X not (only) because you actually find X very compelling for some reason, but because you want to "join the X community". People talk about "getting into retro games" like they're about to join a cult whose initiation ceremony consists of beating Super Mario 64.
My gut reaction is finding it disturbing, but thinking about it for some time, I can't really pinpoint why. It's natural for teenagers whose identity hasn't fulled formed yet to 'try on' different taste sets; kids have been doing it since the advent of mass consumerism (think punk/goth/scene/skater/whatever).
I think the reason why I find it weird is that the kids who were socially-attuned enough to get into this sort of thing tended to be fairly social back when I was in highschool, so they tended to stay offline. Online you found a whole lot of outcasts who sought a community that shares their preexisting and rigidly unpopular tastes. But now even the agreeable 'social butterfly' types who mold themselves by the people around them do it all through screens.
I noticed that for many of them, you're never just a fan of something, no, you're member of the fandom. The social aspect seems even more important than the subject matter, which itself becomes mostly a social signal. You get into X not (only) because you actually find X very compelling for some reason, but because you want to "join the X community". People talk about "getting into retro games" like they're about to join a cult whose initiation ceremony consists of beating Super Mario 64.
My gut reaction is finding it disturbing, but thinking about it for some time, I can't really pinpoint why. It's natural for teenagers whose identity hasn't fulled formed yet to 'try on' different taste sets; kids have been doing it since the advent of mass consumerism (think punk/goth/scene/skater/whatever).
I think the reason why I find it weird is that the kids who were socially-attuned enough to get into this sort of thing tended to be fairly social back when I was in highschool, so they tended to stay offline. Online you found a whole lot of outcasts who sought a community that shares their preexisting and rigidly unpopular tastes. But now even the agreeable 'social butterfly' types who mold themselves by the people around them do it all through screens.