I would like you to expand on this "objective good" that can be simplified as "compassion" or "goodwill".
Its, of course, beneficial as a society to help one another. That is how humans became what we experience at this point in time. Goodwill as a means of gauging moral objectivity is, itself, too subjective in my view to be quantifiable in any objective way. I would like to see how it is that you define "goodwill" in terms of objective morality and how you would use it to gauge the morality of others.
A scenario that comes to my mind is this: Imagine you have a family member who is heavily addicted to opioids and is thusly homeless. You do not hate them, you love them deeply and want to help them the best you can. One could easily say that letting them stay with you for a while is an act of goodwill. At some point, though, that stay in your house will become enabling for their addiction if the right steps are not taken by each party involved. Even if it is not objectively detrimental to your drug addicted family member to overstay their welcome, it could quickly become detrimental, physically and emotionally, to the immediate family living in your house. At this point, do you: Kick your drug addicted family member out of the house out of goodwill for your family or do you let your family endure detrimental behavior out of good will for your other family member? At this point, I would see it as less of a case of doing what is 'compassionate' and more of a case of weighing the options between two 'compassionate' acts, thus signifying an even deeper moral truth than 'compassion' or 'goodwill'.
I'd love to see your thoughts on this, if you disagree with any of my definitions, or do not feel this is an apt scenario to judge!
An interesting conundrum, certainly a fine example of the nuance involved in ethical decision making. I'll bite!
Now to my Opioid-head relative, let's call him Max. Let's say I uphold compassion as the highest good. If true, this would mean that in every situation it would uphold that having compassion as my direct aim is going to lead to actions creating the most good. Since compassion is the highest good, I will know that the desired outcome of the ethical option is compassion. I want to generate good, and the best good is compassion. So before I make any decision regarding Max, I know off the bat that my goal is compassion. Therefore I want Max to have instilled in him the same desire towards good-will that I am feeling, which is the desire towards good-will. I am not making my decision for any other reason than out of compassion. Compassion is both the means and the end of my choice. Given that, I see two options in front of me.
First, I kick Max out of the house. I know that I must act with compassion and for compassion. Therefore I speak to Max. I let him know that while I love him very much I cannot currently house him, it is too much of an imposition on my life and I want to set an appropriate boundary. His circumstances, while regrettable, ought not to preclude him from basic human respect, if he truly loves me he would respect my requested boundaries. If not, and he acts unethically, than he has chosen that path. He must be held responsible for his actions as much as I am, and he is. If he reacts negatively, let's say spirals out in anger and uses, that is his choice at the end of the day. He needs to be held responsible, allowing him to be enabled. Either way I end up no longer morally responsible, and I get him out of my house. His actions are his moral responsibility. I of course empathize and would obviously do all I can to help him move, be there for support in his life and do all I can to show my deep love for him. I hold him responsible just like he ought to hold me, and at the end of it all it must be up to him if he wants to get better. However just the same he could understand my motivation and intention. Perhaps even being held responsible and encouraged to live his life with support and strength could be the foundation which leads to his sobering up, self esteem raise and overall life improvement. My point here is that I cannot know the outcome whether he takes it well or whether it has some positive effect on him, but I do know that I am striving for compassion and acting with compassion, so my intentions are for the best. In this way I see this as a viable option, option A.
Second, I let Max stay. In this scenario he is enable if I do not retain my right to evict him. I must have that kind of monopoly of force, or there will be no ramifications for his actions if they cause serious harm to me or my loved ones. So if he stays he know that if he fucks up too bad, he's out on his ass. Then, since I am making a sacrifice for him, he must uphold the responsibility of receiving that sacrifice. If he is to stay in my house, he has to work with me to keep his independent life stable and on track as well as work towards understanding the root causes of his addiction so that he can kick the habit. Personally I would also like him to make a serious attempt at NA as well, and never use in the house. If he needs a fix he needs to go to a harm reduction center if able, if not he just needs to speak with me, I am understanding and will make try my best to give harm reduction given my limited expertise. These are my boundaries and expectations of Max, given that I am helping him out and giving him major support. If he violates these expectations, he will be kicked out. I must hold him responsible for his actions. These actions are motivated by compassion, my ultimate goal would be to instill compassion, which would mean being a huge part in the recovery of a dear loved one as I strive to bring joy into their life so that they may best exercise good-will. I see this as an
equally viable option, option B.
Given that both options when motivated by compassion work, the choice is made not on ethical grounds but on the grounds of personal preference. I will undertake a serious moral duty if the situation demands it for option B. Or I will set a proper and ethical boundary if the situation demands it for option A. My point of all this is that compassion is the highest good because it is an end in itself, Any action undertaken with compassion leads me (and by me I mean
only me, since that is all I have autonomy over) towards manifesting more compassion in the world, more kindness, which is a product of love and joy. I can choose to do either. This is the nature of the objective good. You can run an infinite amount of permutations on this scenario, if I choose to act with compassion for every one of them, I will always make sure I am being morally right. This is the best we can hope for out of morality, the ability to direct our actions towards a morally good direction. What other people do is fundamentally up to them.
regardless of what laws or commandments they may be given. True ethics are not about making other people be good, but how each and every one of us
individually can be good.
I hope this answer satisfies you, and illuminates better my point on compassion being the highest good. I really enjoyed your scenario thank you for your thoughts. If you have any other thoughts I'd love to discuss this further.