CapnGreenGenes
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has anyone else been having more interesting dreams lately ? good or bad? like way different than what you normally are used to?
I've had night terrors my whole life so I'm used to some very awful shit.
But lately I've been having dreams more so lately that having been focusing more on previous mistakes I've done.. and I wake up in a state of mind I'm unfamiliar with or just perhaps haven't experienced in a solid decade or more.
Currently I'm going through what appears to be the beginning of a depressing divorce and will be fucked out of being around my babies
But a portion of my dreams seem to be focused on previous relationship mistakes I've made, at least the major ones anyway..
Ex: go to sleep thinking about the wife and my kids feeling sad at how all this is affecting me mentally and emotionally.... Proceed to have a dream focusing on the biggest relationship I had a few people prior to my marriage and all the mistakes I made within that one which was a drastically different dynamic and set of mistakes. End up feeling sad when I wake up for different reasons then I went to sleep with.
Its not just my relationships with significant others, its also with family and friends but ex's seem to be a focus more than other topics or people.
Am I overthinking all this? Could my mind and emotions be trying to cope for me and is showing me worse things to distract myself away from my current situation and just failing at it? Am I looking for an explanation when one may not exist? Do I just need a solid slap across the face and accept shit and move forward?
I've had night terrors my whole life so I'm used to some very awful shit.
But lately I've been having dreams more so lately that having been focusing more on previous mistakes I've done.. and I wake up in a state of mind I'm unfamiliar with or just perhaps haven't experienced in a solid decade or more.
Currently I'm going through what appears to be the beginning of a depressing divorce and will be fucked out of being around my babies
But a portion of my dreams seem to be focused on previous relationship mistakes I've made, at least the major ones anyway..
Ex: go to sleep thinking about the wife and my kids feeling sad at how all this is affecting me mentally and emotionally.... Proceed to have a dream focusing on the biggest relationship I had a few people prior to my marriage and all the mistakes I made within that one which was a drastically different dynamic and set of mistakes. End up feeling sad when I wake up for different reasons then I went to sleep with.
Its not just my relationships with significant others, its also with family and friends but ex's seem to be a focus more than other topics or people.
Am I overthinking all this? Could my mind and emotions be trying to cope for me and is showing me worse things to distract myself away from my current situation and just failing at it? Am I looking for an explanation when one may not exist? Do I just need a solid slap across the face and accept shit and move forward?
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