Incel Thread

[Some_porcupine]

Use this negative emotional energy you amass and convert it into positive emotional energy.

i need convertor
i am angry horny restless anxious fearful ...
i wonder, is there way how?

 

[no_chill]

i need convertor
i am angry horny restless anxious fearful ...
i wonder, is there way how?

Allow me to assume: You are constantly calling out that you are horny and have sexual frustration and can't satisfy it.

Obviously this just reinforces it. As above so below. Rather call out that you will change your state and satisfy your lust. Get into the positive feedback loop. And thats just the 101 of kitchen occultism. However let me advise you that meaningless fucking around also creates problems, different ones. But those are experiences you need to have. I cannot deprive you of that.

 

[Crypto]

I feel bad for incels, they are clearly lost in their search for meaning in women. I feel it is a societal creation of modern times, as well as an inability in the individuals to look inward and expand their character.

My advice to these people would be to learn to love themselves. Women and people can tell when you lack confidence in yourself, and usually it comes off as a red flag. If you don't like yourself, theres no way you can properly be with another person positively. The best thing for them to do is quit social media and dating apps, as these don't lead to anything good really. Work on themselves and their habits, as we are really just creatures of our habits. If they work on making themselves better and truly finding things they enjoy, the rest will follow.

Things tend to compound exponentially. So if you are constantly thinking about how you aren't good and how all these girls are rejecting you and you haven't slept with anyone before, you tend you go in a downwards spiral. Compare this to someone who looks inward to find a new passion and learn more about it and grow because of it, perhaps meet new people likeminded because of it, slowly they start to feel better about themselves and want to make more positive changes naturally.

Of course all of this is hard work and requires a lot of effort and failing. For many its simply more comfortable to suffer with other likeminded people. C'est la vie.

 

[Panasonicdx]

Yeah, it sucks. I know a guy on IRC who's slowly becoming like this after his first girlfriend turned out to be batshit crazy. Yet he seems a little self-aware about it, I remember him saying "I don't want to hate women, are they really all like this" or something like that.

I recently got out of a relationship with a woman who suddenly went batshit insane and abusive, and it's legitimately hard talking to other women without the feeling that she'll also turn out to be crazy. I feel for your friend, it can fuck you ip.

 

[[Tr4sh_Kun]]

Personally I think the problem is a mix of incels being online too much coupled with the unique phenomenon that incels seem to run into the worst women the world has to offer. I've found very few women to be like what incels describe and I'm always baffled that they somehow only have interactions with the bitchiest, nastiest, females to ever hit the light of day. Then again I wouldn't be surprised if those accounts are largely biased.

Anyways, post your stuff. People seem to have a lot to say on this subject so dump it here.

Not really, for what I've seen it's not entirely the woman's fault, most incels are either very egocentrical/egotistical guys who want to be in a relationship just as a way to get free sex whenever they want, caring little to none for the girls feelings, extremely insecure people who can't be away from their couple for a second and that ends up overwhelming the girl to the point she decides to break up with him for her mental health as she feels harrased, or somewhat misogynistic/4chan levels of conservative guys who have pretty unrealistic standards for girls (the classic "must be white, under 24, virgin, conservative rightwinger and wants to be a stay at home tradwife with two children and must not interact with any other men once we start dating") while they look like a chud, have their bedroom walls covered in anime posters and collects anime figurines and has little to none social skills IRL.

Their anger towards women often comes from the believe that girls are obligated to date them only because they treat with the obvious intention of dating them or because they think they deserve to date a cute girl because they're such nice guys and so smart and they would treat them great unlike the dumb jocks and fuckboys, girls are not dumb, they know when a guy wants them only for dating and or sex and are in their whole right to reject someone if they're not physically or sexually attracted to them. And when the incel is met with rejection he starts rambling online about how all women are dumb whores and that they prefer handsome jerks that treat them like shit and how feminism has taken away women's femininity and poisoned their minds with ideas of independence and sexual liberty and how everything was better in the 50s or 40s. And with a lot of guys with similar mentalities find each other on the internet they start a circlejerk pity party about how much of a nice guy they are and that they deserve love no matter what and with their high levels of vanity and self-centeredness along with the emotional vulnerability of a rejection/breakup and their own pre-existing insecurities they start to get into the incel rabbithole

 

[LostintheCycle]

Elliot Rodger seething

I've come to wonder why exactly he was considered the hero of the incels. In his manifesto he brags so much about how stupid rich his parents were, they were seriously upper-crust. He was a spoiled brat his whole life. Hardly a down-trodden guy.
I would not recommend reading it. It is legitimately the most boring thing I have ever read. I didn't finish it, I got as far as I could but he just keeps going on and on about what video games he was playing at what age, and how his mum took him out clothes shopping, and he really liked hacky-sack, but oh no a girl said a swear at him and shoved him and that was his first traumatic experience with a girl.
I intended to find out what pushed him in his teen years to be the way he was, but when I saw that was the bar for 'trauma', I decided it was probably nothing. If he ever did have sex, his personality wouldn't have changed. He'd just be a woman abuser, or a sleazy conman, or some other kind of a parasite. I suspect that is true of a lot of incels as well.
I am continually astonished that a man in his twenties wrote this rather than a 14 year old boy.

 

[[Tr4sh_Kun]]

Elliot Rodger seething

I've come to wonder why exactly he was considered the hero of the incels. In his manifesto he brags so much about how stupid rich his parents were, they were seriously upper-crust. He was a spoiled brat his whole life. Hardly a down-trodden guy.
I would not recommend reading it. It is legitimately the most boring thing I have ever read. I didn't finish it, I got as far as I could but he just keeps going on and on about what video games he was playing at what age, and how his mum took him out clothes shopping, and he really liked hacky-sack, but oh no a girl said a swear at him and shoved him and that was his first traumatic experience with a girl.
I intended to find out what pushed him in his teen years to be the way he was, but when I saw that was the bar for 'trauma', I decided it was probably nothing. If he ever did have sex, his personality wouldn't have changed. He'd just be a woman abuser, or a sleazy conman, or some other kind of a parasite. I suspect that is true of a lot of incels as well.
I am continually astonished that a man in his twenties wrote this rather than a 14 year old boy.

Right there is the answer, a privileged and spoiled rich kid with little to none social skills and a high level of self-ceteredness ever since he was a kid with only his above average intellect and his family history as his only consolation who never made an effort to improve himself, thinking that he didn't needed to because he was too perfect.

That's the mentality of most incels, while they're not descendants of aristocrats or some rich european family they think they're better than everybody else for whatever reason they have to justify being self-centered vain dicks in their heads while shy and quiet IRL (doing better than everybody else at school, being a "nice guy", being "cultured" when in reality they only know about "deep" anime and videogames, etc) and think everybody should love them no matter what, at first most incels think that boys going after girls is dumb or something but when they reach their teenage years they end up becoming self conscious about nobody actually liking them, they will justify it by saying everyone is jealous of them for being better than those "uncultured, dumb jocks that only think about sex and bimbo whores who only think about sex with handsome boys" but at the same time they feel jealous of them because they're experiencing sex when he doesn't, when they grow up they start believing their own pessimistic ideas that the world is harsh and evil and only brutes that step on nice guys like them get all the girls while they end up with nothing or the kind of girls they're not attracted to.

Elliot's story resonates with most incels because it's almost a one to one copy of their lives; social awkwardess and lack of social skills since childhood, self-centered thoughts, being gamers since an early age and thanks to than having little to no contact with girls and never having a girlfriend while the guys that bully them or simply don't like because whatever reason get the girls and blaming their own shortcomings on a supposedly superficial society and women instead of their lack of a wish to improve themselves and hail him as a hero because he "had the balls" to do what only the rest of them can only dream for because they're too afraid to do it,

 

[mydadiscar]

I've come to wonder why exactly he was considered the hero of the incels.

Because he's the most famous incel.
That's literally it. He's the most well-known, and probably also his feelings towards his situation causing him to react in such an extreme way (mass shooting) creates a sense of empathy for incels, who see their inceldom as the main problem in their lives and often are suicidal due to it. So the fact that he was so upset by his inceldom that he was driven to kill to it, while many incels likely aren't willing to kill, they can probably relate to someone being so broken up about their loneliness to take the most extreme act imaginable.

 

[llillilll]

Because he's the most famous incel.
That's literally it. He's the most well-known, and probably also his feelings towards his situation causing him to react in such an extreme way (mass shooting) creates a sense of empathy for incels, who see their inceldom as the main problem in their lives and often are suicidal due to it. So the fact that he was so upset by his inceldom that he was driven to kill to it, while many incels likely aren't willing to kill, they can probably relate to someone being so broken up about their loneliness to take the most extreme act imaginable.

I would like to remind people Elliot was rich and didn't have issues except being shit at flirting. Also his flirting was horrible because any interaction he had with women was him giving those lowly subhumen foids the holy attention of Elliot in his eyes.

 

[mydadiscar]

I would like to remind people Elliot was rich and didn't have issues except being shit at flirting. Also his flirting was horrible because any interaction he had with women was him giving those lowly subhumen foids the holy attention of Elliot in his eyes.

Did I say otherwise, Turkroach?

 

[llillilll]

Did I say otherwise, Turkroach?

People always forget he was rich, i just reminded people and you were the last post thta talked about him.

 

[Deleted member 5489]

I recently got out of a relationship with a woman who suddenly went batshit insane and abusive, and it's legitimately hard talking to other women without the feeling that she'll also turn out to be crazy. I feel for your friend, it can fuck you ip.

My condolences brother. I'm sorry to hear you went through this experience. You can use it as a learning experience and gauge if the next woman is also abusive.

One last thing I would like to add to my post here (before I mute this thread for good), is that they need to make some friends to fill in the loneliness. Not a group of anonymous fools in some forums, or imageboards, or Discord servers, but in real life. It isn't easy but it's doable.

 

[punishedgnome]

I recently got out of a relationship with a woman who suddenly went batshit insane and abusive, and it's legitimately hard talking to other women without the feeling that she'll also turn out to be crazy. I feel for your friend, it can fuck you ip.

Women are like dogs, some of them are rabid, but its worth it when you find one that isn't and put your dick in its mouth.

In all seriousness, this happened to me with a girl once upon a time. Everything was going well, sex was great, she was fun to hang out with, etc. Became official and overnight, I'm getting woken up by slaps to the side of the head in the middle of the night over some minor perceived slight and my ears are ringing for days afterward. It sucks man, but try to stay positive. I think I said it before, but I believe a lot of guys in the incel community who are not actually celibate are there because their only relationship was that sort of thing.

 

[Remember_Summer_Days]

This was a while ago, but finally read My Twisted World by E.R Rodger. The dude had a legitimate writing talent, it's sort of infuriating watch him throw it all away because it wouldn't get him the fame and money he felt he needed for a gf quickly enough. I believe at some point he fell into a self-fulfilling prophecy, he became convinced that he had no manner of getting a girl but to be rich, and he would never get rich unless he wins the lotto. His line of thinking seemed absolutely bizarre, why would you wager your life on lottery? Maybe try the stock exchange or something? Become an oil engineer? If he had pursued film, he could've gotten far probably, thanks to the contacts of his father, heck even with writing his family already had contacts. There's so much I could say about him, but I think these are my midnight thoughts, at least for today.

PS. I know it´s controversial within actual incels how much of an incel he was... But still, you can't deny he's an incel icon

 

[Itubaino]

Man, if I told that I suferred from love you'd probably think that it was some little girl that I liked when I was 10 that kissed some other kid but nope, God told me that I should get thrashed in relationship for the first time in my late teens and never come back.

Basically I met this girl when I was 14 in a trip and we liked each other a lot and kissed for the first time and talked to each other everyday but at the end of the trip she told me that we should keep talking online, so that was, we were together but one day she told me to have a conversation with a WhatsApp group and I as a motherfucker that I am chose to pick on this kpop fan girl that I would discover later that was her one and only childhood friend so rationally she blocked me crying while saying that she would prefer her childhood friend over a guy she met 2 months ago, I said that I could explain myself and I explained her my entire life and she also did coming to the conclusion that we were both shitty introverted people with almost no friends in life with kind of shitty parenting involved so we started dating, she lived far away but that was ok, 7 months later of dating we stopped talking as frequently as we were back on the start and she told me that she was going to kill herself.

I couldn't believe and I started crying imediately, tried to contact her mother with no avail, tried convincing her to not do it but she blocked me and I was far away from her because of a family trip, I couldn't make anything besides crying, I started binge drinking, everyday for months and I checked her town's death reports everyday, only with the help of a friend prohibiting me from drinking to stay with her that I stopped.

1 year after she send me a message, saying that she missed me, I was as shocked as in her suicide note, so I said that I missed her as well and when I got the opportunity I asked her what I've always wanted to say to my friend that stopped me from drinking, and asked if she got any questions at all about me so she asked me if I regretted to know her and I said that in the time she said she was going to kill herself and asked what happened, she indeed tried to overdose and got in coma but failed, we met at the airport after she said the most beautiful phrase anybody told me, I was as extasic as never after biking 5 miles to see her under tropical heavy rain, we snorted some medicine, smoked weed and fucked, got back to school and I completely blacked out, I didn't sleep for 3 days waiting for the moment I'd find her and after I couldn't remember it well, only when she told me I understood well but also she said that I cummed inside, I've always dreamed of having a child and living in the countryside so even with 15 years and admissional exams to do I prefered running away and restart life with her, so I tried to find a job only to visit her and had an objective of not making her try to ever commit suicide again, (she said that if she got disappointed one more time she'd kill herself), I had the plan of living with her and if I did not make her happy in 3 months we'd kill ourselves together and ask for a shared tomb but everything was stopped because I was getting too sticky and it was annoying to her so she blocked me and I binge drink till nowadays but sometimes I get a girl or another, I'm going to be a wagie in a couple of years and life hasn't been more meaningless but still there's a saying that brazilians never give up so I'm not gaving up any time soon and I still believe in true love. Thanks

 

[№56]

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rvJlcEUYt6g

 

[Some_porcupine]

View: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/5-UtPqe68j8?feature=share

 

[InsufferableCynic]

View: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/5-UtPqe68j8?feature=share

This guy is completely wrong. Camgirls who compete in this way can make huge amounts of money, whereas the average OnlyFans modsl makes peanuts. People like to focus on the OnlyFans models that make $10,000 a month, but on average most of them make next to nothing because nudes are cheap.

The problem is that men are essentially inherently cucked and will destroy themselves and other men in order to be the "top dog" or the "alpha male" in any group to impress women, so they compete more and more for the camgirls attention via auction. But on onlyfans, each man is independent, and the relationship is inverted - instead of being a lot of men competing for 1 woman, instead 1 man has a choice of a nearly unlimited number of onlyfans models. When men are expected to chase women (either through society or evolution, who cares really), any inverted scenario is going to leave the women with extremely low value, which is why so many onlyfans cost $5 or less a month.

Also this "product" he is talking about sounds like a grift. The only way to fix this problem is behavioural change, and so many people in the manosphere are always shilling seminars or products to "pick up girls" or "have better relationships" and they are always a grift.

If you want to avoid getting scammed, either try to find a woman the proper way by actually going out and finding one rather than looking in the endless-marketplace that is online dating (which will completely fuck you on purpose for a multitude of reasons), or be content to be single (this is the best thing you can do, tbh. Once you're happy with yourself, then you can find a worthwhile relationship, not before). There's no "pickup" products and you can't "game" the system. Women know the trump hand they have been dealt and aren't stupid enough to go for second best just because he does some magic "move" or uses some "product" or "maintains frame".

I'm starting to think gay men are the only ones who aren't cucked enough to actually understand women. How all this works is so obvious to me and yet all the straight men I know seem to somehow think women are some dark mystery or are impossible to understand because they don't like the predictable ways romance tends to work (probably because they get such a raw deal and living in denial is easier than embracing reality)

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rvJlcEUYt6g

On an unrelated note, this is one of the most cringe things I have ever seen in my life. Is that seriously what Channel 4 unironically thinks the manosphere is?

 

[Some_porcupine]

This guy is completely wrong. Camgirls who compete in this way can make huge amounts of money, whereas the average OnlyFans modsl makes peanuts. People like to focus on the OnlyFans models that make $10,000 a month, but on average most of them make next to nothing because nudes are cheap.

The problem is that men are essentially inherently cucked and will destroy themselves and other men in order to be the "top dog" or the "alpha male" in any group to impress women, so they compete more and more for the camgirls attention via auction. But on onlyfans, each man is independent, and the relationship is inverted - instead of being a lot of men competing for 1 woman, instead 1 man has a choice of a nearly unlimited number of onlyfans models. When men are expected to chase women (either through society or evolution, who cares really), any inverted scenario is going to leave the women with extremely low value, which is why so many onlyfans cost $5 or less a month.

Also this "product" he is talking about sounds like a grift. The only way to fix this problem is behavioural change, and so many people in the manosphere are always shilling seminars or products to "pick up girls" or "have better relationships" and they are always a grift.

If you want to avoid getting scammed, either try to find a woman the proper way by actually going out and finding one rather than looking in the endless-marketplace that is online dating (which will completely fuck you on purpose for a multitude of reasons), or be content to be single (this is the best thing you can do, tbh. Once you're happy with yourself, then you can find a worthwhile relationship, not before). There's no "pickup" products and you can't "game" the system. Women know the trump hand they have been dealt and aren't stupid enough to go for second best just because he does some magic "move" or uses some "product" or "maintains frame".

I'm starting to think gay men are the only ones who aren't cucked enough to actually understand women. How all this works is so obvious to me and yet all the straight men I know seem to somehow think women are some dark mystery or are impossible to understand because they don't like the predictable ways romance tends to work (probably because they get such a raw deal and living in denial is easier than embracing reality)



On an unrelated note, this is one of the most cringe things I have ever seen in my life. Is that seriously what Channel 4 unironically thinks the manosphere is?

Men role model fór women: some selfish bimbo, Twee, destroy;men;radical
What women lôok úp to: ellen ripley front alien, or so

Just guess

 

[Digital Cheese]

Holy fuck I spent the past two hours of my life reading this single thread (yes I got interrupted a bit so due to that it was more like 1h but still).

Basically What I Can Confirm As Fax:
>Dating Apps Are Gay (Literally And Figuratively)
>Women Are All Federal Agents (Obviously)
>As Someone Else In This Thread Said, Just SexMaxx If Incel (Sigma Grindset)

Ok seriously though, depends on where we say the "incel" line is. If we refer to stereotypical /pol/ users who haven't seen the sunlight since they were born, yea fair enough. In terms of just people who can't get any bitches but are otherwise normal people, idk F.