Incel Thread

[Deleted member 5489]

Why give a shit if women find you attractive or not? Just work on yourself, find a hobby, do psychedelics, hike in nature, whatever.
The thing that gets me is if women truly don't find you attractive and dislike you, why hyper-focus on that?

Self actualize already.

 

[butt3rfly_s0up]

Why give a shit if women find you attractive or not? Just work on yourself, find a hobby, do psychedelics, hike in nature, whatever.
The thing that gets me is if women truly don't find you attractive and dislike you, why hyper-focus on that?

Self actualize already.

Relationships and sex are seen as a social currency, it shouldn't be. You're right, the more incels get out and be themselves. Doing so, will mean a higher chance that they will find someone who genuinely likes them.

 

[PizzaW0lf]

TO BE OR NOT TO BE.... THAT IS THE QUESTION

 

[Rikstah]

Never been an incel but I think being single is the most productive season of your life (that comes and goes until you meet the one).

Get in the best shape of your life, work hard, study hard, enjoy your hobbies like gaming (in balance with other things) and socialise.

Once you're entangled in a romantic relationship the above is so much harder to balance correctly.

 

[Still a Youth]

"It will be seen from these figures that at the charity-
level men outnumber women by something like ten
to one. The cause is presumably that unemployment
affects women less than men ; also that any presentable
woman can, in the last resort, attach herself to some
man. The result, for a tramp, is that he is condemned
to perpetual celibacy. For of course it goes without
saying that if a tramp finds no women at his own
level, those above—even a very little above—are as far
out of his reach as the moon. The reasons are not
worth discussing, but there is no doubt that women
never, or hardly ever, condescend to men who are
much poorer than themselves. A tramp, therefore, is a
celibate from the moment when he takes to the road.
He is absolutely without hope of getting a wife, a
mistress, or any kind of woman except—very rarely,
when he can raise a few shillings—a prostitute.
It is obvious what the results of this must be : homo-
sexuality, for instance, and occasional rape cases. But
deeper than these there is the degradation worked in
man who knows that he is not even considered fit for
marriage. The sexual impulse, not to put it any
higher, is a fundamental impulse, and starvation of it
can be almost as demoralising as physical hunger. The
evil of poverty is not so much that it makes a man suffer
as that it rots him physically and spiritually. And there
can be no doubt that sexual starvation contributes to
this rotting process. Cut off from the whole race of
women, a tramp feels himself degraded to the rank of
a cripple or a lunatic. No humiliation could do more
damage to a man's self-respect."

https://ia801306.us.archive.org/22/items/in.ernet.dli.2015.208078/2015.208078.Down-And_text.pdf

 

[mydadiscar]

TO BE OR NOT TO BE.... THAT IS THE QUESTION

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I miss Alex.

View: https://youtu.be/0EOpGZUxDKQ

 

[punishedgnome]

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I'm 39. I know exactly one guy who was a virgin by 25 and he clearly has undiagnosed high-functioning autism. I'd find it extremely hard to believe that the number of men over 35 in the western world who have not had sex is higher than a single digit percentage. If it is, I legit don't know where all these guys are hiding out. Besides that one guy, every man I work with, am friends with, deal with day to day, are friends of friends, have had a long-term girlfriend or wife at some point and I can only assume they have had sex with them.

Like, I can't speak for guys in their 20s because I am of an older generation at this point. However, between 35-40 is my generation and I assure you the vast majority of us have had the sex.

 

[赤い男]

I'm 39. I know exactly one guy who was a virgin by 25 and he clearly has undiagnosed high-functioning autism. I'd find it extremely hard to believe that the number of men over 35 in the western world who have not had sex is higher than a single digit percentage. If it is, I legit don't know where all these guys are hiding out. Besides that one guy, every man I work with, am friends with, deal with day to day, are friends of friends, have had a long-term girlfriend or wife at some point and I can only assume they have had sex with them.

I'll be honest, i've never met someone over the age of 25 who is still a virgin in my life, not even the father of my local church (catholic), he used to be addicted to prostitutes in his youth before becoming a church father.

 

[punishedgnome]

I'll be honest, i've never met someone over the age of 25 who is still a virgin in my life, not even the father of my local church (catholic), he used to be addicted to prostitutes in his youth before becoming a church father.

TBH, I do know a couple people who lost it in their mid-20s. I had a typo in there, I meant I know exactly one guy who hadn't had sex by 35.

 

[赤い男]

TBH, I do know a couple people who lost it in their mid-20s. I had a typo in there, I meant I know exactly one guy who hadn't had sex by 35.

Tbh, i'm surprised he managed to stay virgin that long, i mean not one single girlfriend or even a prostitute, that's some dedication for sure.

 

[punishedgnome]

Tbh, i'm surprised he managed to stay virgin that long, i mean not one single girlfriend or even a prostitute, that's some dedication for sure.

We've joked about buying him a hooker, but yeah this guy has some issues.

 

[LostintheCycle]

If it is, I legit don't know where all these guys are hiding out.

I could suggest that those guys are all stuck inside probably playing video games, and that's why you never come across them. Honestly, I would believe it if I were told that a significant portion of the youth population are shut-ins.

 

[33_deimos]

I'm 39. I know exactly one guy who was a virgin by 25 and he clearly has undiagnosed high-functioning autism. I'd find it extremely hard to believe that the number of men over 35 in the western world who have not had sex is higher than a single digit percentage. If it is, I legit don't know where all these guys are hiding out. Besides that one guy, every man I work with, am friends with, deal with day to day, are friends of friends, have had a long-term girlfriend or wife at some point and I can only assume they have had sex with them.

Like, I can't speak for guys in their 20s because I am of an older generation at this point. However, between 35-40 is my generation and I assure you the vast majority of us have had the sex.

Hell of an anecdote there. I could say the same since I have a very active social life and a job, but you have to remember not everyone is like you and me.

 

[wearyinternettraveler]

Oh no it's true I heard Chris-Chan did get laid in the end with some mentally ill woman who wasn't his Mum.

He originally lost it to a prostitute, but for long-term relationships there was a 19 year old autistic woman who fit all of the criteria of the OG attraction sign. She was tied into the whole group that got Chris to admit to fucking Barb but the general consensus is that she was TRUE and HONEST. Chris was gonna meet her at a con, until he realized he had perfectly good pussy right at home.

 

[punishedgnome]

Hell of an anecdote there. I could say the same since I have a very active social life and a job, but you have to remember not everyone is like you and me.

And anecdotes are all we have to go on unless you have an actual state saying the percentage of men in their late 30s who have not had sex is higher.

As I said, it may not be as low as 1%, but I think most people would find it hard to believe it's higher than 5-6%. There's a reason a movie like the 40-year-old virgin exists; a man that age who has not had sex is incredibly uncommon. Here's an article from just over a decade ago pegging the number of men who are 40-year-old virgins at around 1.2%. Granted, that is five years older than 35, but unless you think the vast majority of men who are virgins at 35 spontaneously have sex before they are 40, it seems to support the idea that the percentage of men who have not had sex by 35 is extremely low.

Just to clarify the post you are quoting contains a typo. It was originally supposed to read 35 not 25 as the original claim that you seemed to take issue with was 0.9% of men are virgins by 35.

The point remains, unless you consider yourself in the bottom 2-3% of men, you will most likely have sex at some point if you want to.

 

[ZinRicky]

if an incel stopped being so self entitled, arrogant and pedantic, and just learned to be way more humble and easy going, they will be banned from airports for being a walking chick magnet

Don't remind me of why I'm still at square one at the Me board game

 

[Vetusomaru]

View: https://twitter.com/Azhdaya__/status/1639428926849073152

A good, short answer to all retards (both male and female) who won't stfu about incels boogeyman. Same goes for everyone who cry about "rape culture" while they keep dating "tough guys" that everyone else have warned you beforehand for being bad news.

 

[Deleted member 3373]

View: https://twitter.com/Azhdaya__/status/1639428926849073152

A good, short answer to all retards (both male and female) who won't stfu about incels boogeyman

What this person is saying isn't wrong. Gamers (and by extension most incels) tend to have poor social skills and that will turn off most women. The meme in question is more just a complaint about how "unfair" it is that Narcissistic abusers get more than incel Autists but this shows a clear lack of understanding of how cluster B personalities work. Most cluster Bs operate by feigning good social ability before abusing someone (known as love bombing). Male Feminists are a great example of this. They often turn out to be rapists after they proclaim how much they love women's rights. It's like a bait and switch. They also rely on exploiting mentally ill women for whom they fulfil some emotional need. I personally don't believe that most people we call Autists have a neurological condition so much as they have had their development stunted by video games, internet, and abusive/neglectful/generally bad caretakers. Autists don't provide anything to mentally ill women who would otherwise fall for abusers because they don't know how to emotionally support a person. They also cannot feign good social skills. In fact I would even go as far as to say that a woman going for an "Autistic" male is usually a bad sign and that she is likely to be wanting him in order to exploit his vulnerabilities. Most Autistic males are usually too desperate to have any sense of boundaries. I certainly know I was. The answer to this problem is to ditch the video games and start learning social skills and apply them to real life. You also need to do something you can be proud of and engage in activities which give you something to talk about. Gaming provides neither of these. These activities can include music, exercise, drawing, or even just reading a book.

 

[redacted345]

I had a chunky post about my neighbors fucking full of petty vindictiveness about God, my family, women and my country.

I thought about compromising and putting it here in a spoiler tag as incel containment
but I just deleted it, Thought it was enough to move my bitching to the profile incel twitter, but I'm starting to realize I just have to stop trying to spin a literary angle to my misery.

That doesn't mean I've became optimistic. I keep thinking resentful thoughts but they have to rot in my mind and not become a story. I need to retain the compulsion to verborrage my suffering as a movie. It just has to pass in real life out of the Internet.

I'm starting to find that one tenet of the inceldom curse is having being betrayed by words. There is the acknowledged cultural assumption that the expressing of our suffering has literary value, and it helps us relate through -neighbors fucking while I write this- the hardships of life. For sexual frustration, that shit is over. The Internet just has too much of them.

If I meant to keep expressing my sexual anguish I should at the very least attempt to do so in a personal site/blog.

So I pledge now, I won't be writing shit in the profile twitter/general, or anyhere unless it's something that takes more effort than writing (maybe except responses). Actually I pledge only posting text in the literature subforum. I'll add two exceptions: My goalposts for not using Home Internet (it gives me some pride mainly not watching porn/twitter/manga), and at some time posts asking for advice.

 

[Deleted member 1982]

I had a chunky post about my neighbors fucking full of petty vindictiveness about God, my family, women and my country.

I thought about compromising and putting it here in a spoiler tag as incel containment
but I just deleted it, Thought it was enough to move my bitching to the profile incel twitter, but I'm starting to realize I just have to stop trying to spin a literary angle to my misery.

That doesn't mean I've became optimistic. I keep thinking resentful thoughts but they have to rot in my mind and not become a story. I need to retain the compulsion to verborrage my suffering as a movie. It just has to pass in real life out of the Internet.

I'm starting to find that one tenet of the inceldom curse is having being betrayed by words. There is the acknowledged cultural assumption that the expressing of our suffering has literary value, and it helps us relate through -neighbors fucking while I write this- the hardships of life. For sexual frustration, that shit is over. The Internet just has too much of them.

If I meant to keep expressing my sexual anguish I should at the very least attempt to do so in a personal site/blog.

So I pledge now, I won't be writing shit in the profile twitter/general, or anyhere unless it's something that takes more effort than writing (maybe except responses). Actually I pledge only posting text in the literature subforum. I'll add two exceptions: My goalposts for not using Home Internet (it gives me some pride mainly not watching porn/twitter/manga), and at some time posts asking for advice.

Very good. You are on a good path out of this psychological prison you found yourself in.
Use this negative emotional energy you amass and convert it into positive emotional energy.