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I'll be hoenst with you fella, always do what makes you feel happy and comfortable, if crossdressing makes you feel comfortable in a way, do it, but never do something to please the construct, always do what makes you happy, i'm not crossdresser or anything, i feel identify and happy with my identity as a cisgender male, but you know, i always wanted to have long hair, but people always talked bad about the idea, my parents didn't liked it, and in such a conservative society i live in, is not something that is well seeing, but you know what, i didn't gave a fuck about what society thinks, i let it grow anyways, and now is quite long, and i fucking love how i look, it makes me feel confident about myself, i feel more handsome this way.I'm very conflicted on the idea of crossdressing. I have, in private, tried it the few times I ever got an opportunity to and I enjoyed it, up until I hated myself and threw out all the clothes. I think it's been a thing for decades that girls can wear guy stuff and it's quite normal, but feminine clothes is strictly off for guys still; unless you pull it off nigh perfectly, people will make sour faces at you and that's just how it is. Since I've been getting the feelings again, I wonder if I should just accept that I want to do that every now and then. Honestly I feel like I would actually be able to pull off feminine clothes, only thing I'd be stuck on is the voice
So my advice is, that clothing is a construct, you can dress wherever the fuck you want, your own personal happiness is the only thing that should matter, so think about it, every decision, is the right decision, as long as it comes from you.
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