What would you REALLY miss out from life as a NEET? Because there isn't any.

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I just can't think of what you would miss out from life if you have never worked, especially as a non-normie (if you post on Agora Road you ain't normie neither). What are the appeals of a wagie life? What essential experiences that a "normal" lifestyle enable?
Sex? Not really considering there are somewhat "legal" alternatives tha even some one like chris chan can afford.
Start your own family? Even normies today have problem achieving that. And if you managed to breed, your childrens would unlikely appreciate your effort bringing them to this dystopian world without their consent. The old good sense of communities is long gone, they would end up either being a corporate NPC cattle or a cynical doomer unless you are from the top 5% of the society and have enough resources to bringing them out of this vicious circle.
Socializing? Non of the normies that I've to deal with everyday are even remotely interesting. Internet, despite all it's flaws, definitely gives a better socializing experience than real life. And just remind that who makes the internet these days sucks? Normies!
For me joing the (((workfoce))) and interact with normie in general only means avoiding homelessness / starving and I will immediately choose to be a shut in NEET living in a basement over a wagie everyday if I could.
 

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Sex? Not really considering there are somewhat "legal" alternatives tha even some one like chris chan can afford.
Bruh having sex with your mom isn't a somewhat legal alternative.

Having lived both as a wagie and as a NEET, the worst part about being a NEET is the withdrawal from society and the intensity of essentially waiting around to die and not having any goals or social input, and no reason to exercise or leave your dank hole. Most of what you complain about being unattainable goals are made more unattainable by not interacting with other humans. The irony is that you clearly crave these things but see them as pointless because they're not as attainable to your dopamine-eroded brain as your nut button.

The worst part about being a wagie is the cagie and working for someone else's goals - sometimes you can find a job which actually works with your lifestyle.

The best life lived is one with purpose, where you form your own community and basically fix the things you're complaining about instead of folding your arms like a petulant child and justifying rotting in a chair. I bet you've never even bothered to go and talk with your neighbours.

TL;DR Suck it up. Admit to yourself that you find other humans disgusting because you've brainwashed yourself with too much doomer mainstream anti-mainstream internet, and get the fuck outside.
 
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Bruh having sex with your mom isn't a somewhat legal alternative.

Having lived both as a wagie and as a NEET, the worst part about being a NEET is the withdrawal from society and the intensity of essentially waiting around to die and not having any goals or social input, and no reason to exercise or leave your dank hole. Most of what you complain about being unattainable goals are made more unattainable by not interacting with other humans. The irony is that you clearly crave these things but see them as pointless because they're not as attainable to your dopamine-eroded brain as your nut button.

The worst part about being a wagie is the cagie and working for someone else's goals - sometimes you can find a job which actually works with your lifestyle.

The best life lived is one with purpose, where you form your own community and basically fix the things you're complaining about instead of folding your arms like a petulant child and justifying rotting in a chair. I bet you've never even bothered to go and talk with your neighbours.

TL;DR Suck it up. Admit to yourself that you find other humans disgusting because you've brainwashed yourself with too much doomer mainstream anti-mainstream internet, and get the fuck outside.
Well when I mentioned Chris chan I mean the cheap street prostitute he used to brag about (and that's where the "bent duck" meme came from).

I dont want to contribute to the society that I didn't choose to be in for a species that I don't identify as. And I don't, absolutely, craving for the "normal" lifestyle at all, my older sister used to be someone likes me, then she got pozzed by the (((normacy))) , now she is nothing more than an empty NPC live by consooming.
My life already has a purpose, but it has absolutely nothing to do with waging. I would be happy rotting with my personal projects if I can get my basic need fulfilled. You are right about the neighbors part tho, I rarely ever talk to them outside daily chores. I guess I might be better off if I were born in a rural place however I came from a highly urbanized shithole which makes the ranch lifestyle unavailable, at least for me who never has any experience with in the first place.
 

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for a species that I don't identify as
Cringe and hyperporned but we've already discussed this in another thread so I'm not going to derail this one.

You know there aren't just two lifestyles of being a norm or a neet, right? There are a variety of ways to live your life that aren't just plain ol' consooming. You should see it as a challenge to overcome the city life instead of an insurmountable problem. I live in a city and I make an effort to speak with my neighbours and check in on them. Sometimes knocking on their door feels like waking people from a stasis pod of daytime TV and work slavery and they're shocked to see someone who isn't from Amazon.

It's ironic that you think being a norm is the worst thing ever. I've never seen someone more happy than a normie, and it's widely regarded as being a blissful ignorance. In contrast, there's nothing more sad than knowing Chris Chan deeplore and coming to a website populated by failed human beings asking for permission to be a neet.

Find a project.
 
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Cringe and hyperporned but we've already discussed this in another thread so I'm not going to derail this one.

You know there aren't just two lifestyles of being a norm or a neet, right? There are a variety of ways to live your life that aren't just plain ol' consooming. You should see it as a challenge to overcome the city life instead of an insurmountable problem. I live in a city and I make an effort to speak with my neighbours and check in on them. Sometimes knocking on their door feels like waking people from a stasis pod of daytime TV and work slavery and they're shocked to see someone who isn't from Amazon.

It's ironic that you think being a norm is the worst thing ever. I've never seen someone more happy than a normie, and it's widely regarded as being a blissful ignorance. In contrast, there's nothing more sad than knowing Chris Chan deeplore and coming to a website populated by failed human beings asking for permission to be a neet.

Find a project.
But that's the problem, why would care about the soshity if I can't relate to it? Pretty sure it doesn't care about me neither. The reason why the society pretend to care is because it expects you to contribute back, an investment.
I doubt if normies are actually happy considering they compete with each other's statue consistently. Spending money on shit that you don't actually need doesn't sound tempting neither, I can't imagine myself look back at my life in 40s and realize that I've waste the majority working for a title that doesn't matter at all for things you didn't have to in the first place.

Why do you think your average millennial normie is happier than your average 4chan neet anyway?
 

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But that's the problem, why would care about the soshity if I can't relate to it? Pretty sure it doesn't care about me neither. The reason why the society pretend to care is because it expects you to contribute back, an investment.
I doubt if normies are actually happy considering they compete with each other's statue consistently. Spending money on shit that you don't actually need doesn't sound tempting neither, I can't imagine myself look back at my life in 40s and realize that I've waste the majority working for a title that doesn't matter at all for things you didn't have to in the first place.

You're so wrapped up in your internet social categorisations that you don't know what value is available to you. You don't need to be a consoomer just to exist in """society""". Society is a group of more than one person, not "all of humanity". Imagine what would happen if you went out (heaven forbid) and met your exact twin and how that interaction would go down.

The reason why larger, popular society rejects you is because you hold them in such disdain, and your social mores are entirely built towards a society where we bite chunks out of each other (the mainstream non-mainstream internet).

Why do you think your average millennial normie is happier than your average 4chan neet anyway?

Because most of the discussion on 4chan is oriented around complaining about not being happy without anybody listening. At least in meatspace you can eat something between complaints.
 
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You're so wrapped up in your internet social categorisations that you don't know what value is available to you. You don't need to be a consoomer just to exist in """society""". Society is a group of more than one person, not "all of humanity". Imagine what would happen if you went out (heaven forbid) and met your exact twin and how that interaction would go down.

The reason why larger, popular society rejects you is because you hold them in such disdain, and your social mores are entirely built towards a society where we bite chunks out of each other (the mainstream non-mainstream internet).



Because most of the discussion on 4chan is oriented around complaining about not being happy without anybody listening. At least in meatspace you can eat something between complaints.
I'm not a neet, I can't, which is why everything sucks for me, I have to pretend that I'm grateful to random strangers, check the work group message regularly to make sure I haven't missed out anything and pretend to be a normal human in general. Even if the normies I met aren't outright consoomers, it's unlikely that they would share the same niche hobbies I have anyway. Hell, I can hardly even find anything related to it in my native language!
I read social cues and it's really stressing and tiresome to fake a personality as someone you are not. At least at the internet you don't have to faking it.
 
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I'm not a neet, I can't, which is why everything sucks for me, I have to pretend that I'm grateful to random strangers, check the work group message regularly to make sure I haven't missed out anything and pretend to be a normal human in general. Even if the normies I met aren't outright consoomers, it's unlikely that they would share the same niche hobbies I have anyway. Hell, I can hardly even find anything related to it in my native language!
I read social cues and it's really stressing and tiresome to fake a personality as someone you are not. At least at the internet you don't have to faking it.
You need a vacation.
 
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I legitimately hate vacations with a passion, I know staying at home playing vidya isn't better but at least you won't be tired.
What do you hate so much about them?
 
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What do you hate so much about them?
The amount of time you'd be wasting on transportation, the tiresome, and the fact that the experience you have isn't really good enough to be considered irreplaceable by, said, something likes playing vidya or drawing my OC.
 
I just can't think of what you would miss out from life if you have never worked, especially as a non-normie (if you post on Agora Road you ain't normie neither). What are the appeals of a wagie life? What essential experiences that a "normal" lifestyle enable?
Sex? Not really considering there are somewhat "legal" alternatives tha even some one like chris chan can afford.
Start your own family? Even normies today have problem achieving that. And if you managed to breed, your childrens would unlikely appreciate your effort bringing them to this dystopian world without their consent. The old good sense of communities is long gone, they would end up either being a corporate NPC cattle or a cynical doomer unless you are from the top 5% of the society and have enough resources to bringing them out of this vicious circle.
Socializing? Non of the normies that I've to deal with everyday are even remotely interesting. Internet, despite all it's flaws, definitely gives a better socializing experience than real life. And just remind that who makes the internet these days sucks? Normies!
For me joing the (((workfoce))) and interact with normie in general only means avoiding homelessness / starving and I will immediately choose to be a shut in NEET living in a basement over a wagie everyday if I could.
Your post fucking reeks of superiority complex. Jesus. Go outside and touch grass.

I see absolutely no reason in priding yourself on being a NEET, because now that I think of it, it's a self-destructive state. You're basically erasing yourself from existence when doing that. It doesn't make you a loser to be a NEET, that's not what I'm saying either, but it's akin to being proud of having a mental illness in my books. You sound extremely bitter and self-indulgent, and those are not qualities of someone who is nice to be around.

I'll tell you, as a recovering NEET of 5 years. It's not about sex, or a family, or socializing, but simply... living. The same old day every day... gets old after a while. I mean I do find new things to do, I learn new things on the internet, I create a ton of stuff, and I still go outside at least once a day. But still, there are days where I envy people's little ordinary life. The reason why I became NEET was because I felt like no one would ever want me, whether as a person or in employment, so I purely and simply committed a sort of suicide. I disappeared from society purely and simply, with just my mother to know about my existence other than seeing that pretty girl on the street. But although I did find comfort in being isolated, I didn't grow much emotionally and mentally in certain aspects. I did have interesting internet relationships, I learnt a language by myself, I drew and wrote a ton of things, I even taught myself how to play an instrument, how to sew a bit, but ultimately, I was stuck at the age of 18. It's only when I went to Kazakhstan at almost 23 that I had a push of growing up. And now I can definitely tell I'm not being a NEET for another year.

I'm doing what I can to get a certificate to teach English anyway, and I'm heading back to Kazakhstan as soon as I can. In a way I'm glad I "stalled" for 5 years, because at 18 I was way too mentally and emotionally unstable to function (anyone would've put a diagnosis of BPD on me I bet, I checked all the boxes) anyway. I don't feel like I missed out on so much either, because I'm not the "live life to the fullest according to the mainstream opinion" type of person. But still, it does get old to live the same day over and over. To have no one around to talk to, or to love. To have no real reason to get up in the morning, you just get up and get ready. To just sit in front of a laptop and dissociate into the internet. To go get groceries, come back home, clean your room if needed, and often just do stuff on the internet until it's time for bed. It doesn't really make you evolve that much. You need experiences to evolve, although not necessarily über varied ones. There are so many interesting things that can happen in a regular day. Simple moments, like when you feed the pigeons in a park and give the last seeds you've got to a 2-3 year old girl who wanted to feed them too. The smile on her face and her parents thanking you is priceless. Or even just feeding the birds or giving a 100 tenge coin to an old beggar on the street. Or petting a stray cat. Nothing outstanding here. But it's meaningful.

I like having a simple life and I'll certainly still have one when I can start living like a normal person, ie I won't be going to nightclubs or traveling everywhere, eating too gourmet foods, having tons of sex with everything that moves or even hanging out with too many people, but for sure the life I'll live will help me evolve more as a person. Hell even relocating to a new country, even if you know it pretty well, makes you evolve and adapt. As a NEET I wouldn't even dream of that. I would just keep living life through my imagination and... the internet.

NEETs are stalling and self-destructing, literally erasing themselves from the world. And the NEETdom communities, in which I never really found myself because of the sheer stench of their mentality, is full of crabs in a bucket, incels, unbelievably toxic people rotting in their hole of bitterness, purposelessness and meaninglessness. The person who purposely chooses to stay in such a mentality will only get, and only have themselves to blame for a life of misery.
 
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Your post fucking reeks of superiority complex. Jesus. Go outside and touch grass.

I see absolutely no reason in priding yourself on being a NEET, because now that I think of it, it's a self-destructive state. You're basically erasing yourself from existence when doing that. It doesn't make you a loser to be a NEET, that's not what I'm saying either, but it's akin to being proud of having a mental illness in my books. You sound extremely bitter and self-indulgent, and those are not qualities of someone who is nice to be around.

I'll tell you, as a recovering NEET of 5 years. It's not about sex, or a family, or socializing, but simply... living. The same old day every day... gets old after a while. I mean I do find new things to do, I learn new things on the internet, I create a ton of stuff, and I still go outside at least once a day. But still, there are days where I envy people's little ordinary life. The reason why I became NEET was because I felt like no one would ever want me, whether as a person or in employment, so I purely and simply committed a sort of suicide. I disappeared from society purely and simply, with just my mother to know about my existence other than seeing that pretty girl on the street. But although I did find comfort in being isolated, I didn't grow much emotionally and mentally in certain aspects. I did have interesting internet relationships, I learnt a language by myself, I drew and wrote a ton of things, I even taught myself how to play an instrument, how to sew a bit, but ultimately, I was stuck at the age of 18. It's only when I went to Kazakhstan at almost 23 that I had a push of growing up. And now I can definitely tell I'm not being a NEET for another year.

I'm doing what I can to get a certificate to teach English anyway, and I'm heading back to Kazakhstan as soon as I can. In a way I'm glad I "stalled" for 5 years, because at 18 I was way too mentally and emotionally unstable to function (anyone would've put a diagnosis of BPD on me I bet, I checked all the boxes) anyway. I don't feel like I missed out on so much either, because I'm not the "live life to the fullest according to the mainstream opinion" type of person. But still, it does get old to live the same day over and over. To have no one around to talk to, or to love. To have no real reason to get up in the morning, you just get up and get ready. To just sit in front of a laptop and dissociate into the internet. To go get groceries, come back home, clean your room if needed, and often just do stuff on the internet until it's time for bed. It doesn't really make you evolve that much. You need experiences to evolve, although not necessarily über varied ones. There are so many interesting things that can happen in a regular day. Simple moments, like when you feed the pigeons in a park and give the last seeds you've got to a 2-3 year old girl who wanted to feed them too. The smile on her face and her parents thanking you is priceless. Or even just feeding the birds or giving a 100 tenge coin to an old beggar on the street. Or petting a stray cat. Nothing outstanding here. But it's meaningful.

I like having a simple life and I'll certainly still have one when I can start living like a normal person, ie I won't be going to nightclubs or traveling everywhere, eating too gourmet foods, having tons of sex with everything that moves or even hanging out with too many people, but for sure the life I'll live will help me evolve more as a person. Hell even relocating to a new country, even if you know it pretty well, makes you evolve and adapt. As a NEET I wouldn't even dream of that. I would just keep living life through my imagination and... the internet.

NEETs are stalling and self-destructing, literally erasing themselves from the world. And the NEETdom communities, in which I never really found myself because of the sheer stench of their mentality, is full of crabs in a bucket, incels, unbelievably toxic people rotting in their hole of bitterness, purposelessness and meaninglessness. The person who purposely chooses to stay in such a mentality will only get, and only have themselves to blame for a life of misery.
I'm not a NEET, my parents would kick me out immediately if I ever try to, and I envy people who can be a NEET. A normal life works for you, and that's good for you, but not for me. I was a lot more content during my gap between jobs when I have freedom to choose whatever I want to do throughout the days. Do I have superiority complex? Maybe, but it's not like I hate normie lifestyle or anything, I just doesn't want to be a part of it and I don't think I would miss out anything by not participating based on both my experiences and my observations on my sister.
And my another problem of being a wagie normie so far, is lack of time and energy to chase what you really want, even during the day off you would still be to tired that you'd spend the time on vidya instead of actually learning or creating (I'm guilty to this myself)
 
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i guess the main reason i have a job and force myself to interact with other people irl is mainly just to make sure that i dont spend every single day indoors online, which might seem depressing but its more willpower than most other people

also capitalism so i kinda need disposable income to like, enjoy life

tl;dr: there is no advantage to a NEET life, or a wagie life. if you hate life, you will hate life no matter what, and vice versa. what truly matters is your outlook on life :p
 
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what truly matters is your outlook on life :p
copium? (no attacking you) or lying to yourself?
i think o might miss thankfullness, because however i look at it, it seems we CANT have a nice things
 
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