I made a profile post (https://forum.agoraroad.com/index.php?members/voicedrew.5864/#profile-post-22600), and it got a lot of good replies, so I am making a thread for this topic.
Here is the question: When a normie asks you what you do with your free time, or what kind of music you like, or another adjacent question, what do you tell them? You can obviously lie (as some commenters suggested), but something about that approach occurs to me as inherently wrong. So lets assume for this exploration that you are not allowed to bullshit by saying you like contemporary pop artist X.
I recently had this question asked me by a female coworker. All I could really do was sit in silence and think about what I should say. I know that if i said, "I watch youtube videos, I listen to obscure podcast x and y, I go to the gym, I watch anime, post on a vaporwave forum, manage my website, administer a webring, write software, read the bible, watch theology and apologetics videos, make vaporwave music, cook, clean, BATHE, read books, and half a dozen other things" they wouldn't understand half the shit i'm saying.
This problem persists for me when talking to basically anybody outside of my friends and family, who I am more comfortable just showing, rather than explaining. It's also harder depending on the degree of normie you're speaking to. Some people, seriously, will not know of, or even have the foundations for understanding certain things.
In this thread, I want to attempt to alleviate this problem. When someone asks you what kind of music you like, how can you explain vaporwave to them in a way they will understand? How do you reconcile the things they find fun (which from what I can tell amounts to watching netflix, scrollin' and partying on the weekends), with what you find fun. How can you explain your interests from their starting point.
Thank you to all who reply.
Here is the question: When a normie asks you what you do with your free time, or what kind of music you like, or another adjacent question, what do you tell them? You can obviously lie (as some commenters suggested), but something about that approach occurs to me as inherently wrong. So lets assume for this exploration that you are not allowed to bullshit by saying you like contemporary pop artist X.
I recently had this question asked me by a female coworker. All I could really do was sit in silence and think about what I should say. I know that if i said, "I watch youtube videos, I listen to obscure podcast x and y, I go to the gym, I watch anime, post on a vaporwave forum, manage my website, administer a webring, write software, read the bible, watch theology and apologetics videos, make vaporwave music, cook, clean, BATHE, read books, and half a dozen other things" they wouldn't understand half the shit i'm saying.
This problem persists for me when talking to basically anybody outside of my friends and family, who I am more comfortable just showing, rather than explaining. It's also harder depending on the degree of normie you're speaking to. Some people, seriously, will not know of, or even have the foundations for understanding certain things.
In this thread, I want to attempt to alleviate this problem. When someone asks you what kind of music you like, how can you explain vaporwave to them in a way they will understand? How do you reconcile the things they find fun (which from what I can tell amounts to watching netflix, scrollin' and partying on the weekends), with what you find fun. How can you explain your interests from their starting point.
Thank you to all who reply.