I can only, of course, speak for myself. But I don't believe that "I feel bad.", "I'm depressed.", "I'm sad." are particularly good attitudes to embody. I have dealt (and continue to deal with, occasionally) a number of mental health issues. From nightmares and existential crises and self-esteem and more. When I "feel bad" I take that more as a message of my inside telling me "hey, something is wrong." And then a little further investigation is required: "What is wrong?". Therapy / therapists can be helpful in that investigation, but, imo, I find reading from or listening to people in the Psychology space incredibly helpful. There are a almost countless number of way something can "be wrong". Naturally, some psychologists / mental health professionals are going to be better at addressing some over others. Unfortunately, nowadays, I think it's too time consuming to look for a therapist, schedule an appointment, see if you're the right fit... Nope. Not worth it imo, not when we live in this age with so much access to information and research and studies and people.
@RisingThumb has a great piece called:
Determining your Issue
@Psychcool has a deep interest in Psychology and is quite in-depth about it on his site:
Psych
The first step with mental health, I think, is a little bit of study, of learning. How can you even figure out what's wrong if you don't know a bit of the language / lingo. The last resource I'll throw in here is:
The Integral Guide to Well-Being The sad truth is all of this stuff, it's a marathon. Yes, there are some small spots of immediate relief, but most of the whole thing is gradual, a bit of a grind and requires commitment and discipline. And you have to decide if "your problem" warrants that commitment, if your coping mechanisms have impacted you to such a point that they're crippling you and deciding to prioritize setting aside the time to work through things.
Microbyte speaks an exceptional truth here. Though not the solution to everything of course, sometimes we dwell too much on problems rather than just DO. JUST DO IT, DO SOMETHING, DO ANYTHING. There's that idiom of "Walk. Even though you can't see ahead: WALK. Walk and the way appears." Sometimes action is indeed a remedy, and a powerful one. And questioning it, in any way, diminishes it's power.
Everyone's problems are uniquely twisted. But most have similarities and patterns, to assume you're alone or an exceptional case is a tad ignorant at best and possibly conceited at worse. Talk through things can help a bit, like on this forum, but the bulk of the work with mental health is a personal journey.
I hope this helps,
@shrapnelnet
EDIT: Because Autism seems to be mentioned, here is my favorite resource:
Autistic As Fxxk